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💸 reported 2023 romance-scam losses (FTC)
📋 2023 romance-scam reports received (FTC)
🤝 partnered U.S. adults met their partner online (Pew)
Dated U.S. figures from the FTC and Pew Research Center. Read sources and definitions
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Catfish Detector — Is Your Match Real?
Is Your Online Match Really Who They Say?
Dating Red Flag Analyzer
Is Your Relationship Showing Red Flags?
Romance Scam Risk Profiler
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Online Dating Safety Score
How Safe Is Your Dating Setup?
Fake Profile Checklist
Is That Profile Real? Run the Checklist.
Dating Profile Authenticity Scorer
How Real Is Their Dating Profile?
Social Media Consistency Checker
Do Their Social Media Profiles Actually Match?
Conversation Red Flag Scanner
Are Your Conversations Showing Warning Signs?
Reverse Image Search Guide
Have You Actually Verified Their Photos?
Gaslighting Detection Quiz
Are They Making You Question Your Own Reality?
Love Bombing Warning Detector
Is It Real Affection — Or Love Bombing?
First Date Safety Planner
How Prepared Are You for Your Next First Date?
Trust Score Estimator
How Trustworthy Does Your Dating Profile Look to Women?
Narcissist Dating Pattern Quiz
Are You Dating a Narcissist?
Dating Bio Red Flag Detector
What Does Their Dating Bio Actually Reveal?
Toxic Relationship Pattern Checker
Is Your Relationship Following a Toxic Pattern?
Age Verification Likelihood Tool
Are They Really the Age They Claim?
Dating App Safety Ranker
How Safe Is the Dating App You're Using?
Ghosting Pattern Tracker
Are You Being Ghosted — Or Something Worse?
Relationship Pace Analyzer
Is Your Relationship Moving Too Fast?
Safe Meeting Location Finder
Is Your Date Spot Actually Safe?
Emotional Manipulation Checker
Are You Being Emotionally Manipulated?
Dating Safety Risk Calculator
What's Your Overall Dating Risk Level?
Controlling Behavior Risk Score
Is Your Partner Controlling You?
Online Dating Readiness Quiz
Are You Actually Ready for Online Dating?
How Verified Am I Quiz
How Easy Is It for Women to Verify You?
Photo Analysis Safety Guide
What Do Your Dating Photos Reveal About You?
City Dating Safety Index
How Safe Is Dating in Your City?
Dating Scam Amount Calculator
How Much Could You Lose to a Romance Scam?
Background Check Readiness Guide
Would You Pass a Background Check From Your Date?
First Message Safety Analyzer
What Does Their First Message Tell You?
Digital Dating Boundary Setter
Are Your Digital Boundaries Strong Enough?
Dating Boundary Setter
How Strong Are Your In-Person Dating Boundaries?
Exit Strategy Planner
Do You Have a Way Out If Things Go Wrong?
Relationship Green Flags Checker
What's Going Right in Your Relationship?
Dating Trauma Assessment
Is Past Dating Trauma Affecting Your Current Choices?
Healthy Relationship Scorecard
How Healthy Is Your Relationship Overall?
Trust Building Timeline
Is Trust Developing at a Healthy Pace?
Safe Rideshare Dating Guide
Are You Using Rideshare Safely for Dates?
Emergency Contact Setup Guide
Is Your Emergency Contact System Date-Ready?
Public vs Private Date Advisor
Should This Date Be Public or Private?
Night vs Day Date Risk Scorer
Is a Nighttime Date the Right Choice?
Dating Safety Trend Tracker
Are Your Dating Safety Habits Getting Better or Worse?
Post-Date Safety Debrief
How Did Your Date Actually Go? The Safety Check.
Dating Compatibility Risk Score
Are You Compatible — Or Ignoring Red Flags?
Safety Perception Analyzer
How Safe Do Women Feel Around You?
Verification Worth Calculator
Is Getting Verified Actually Worth It?
Dating Profile Trust Audit
Does Your Profile Build Trust — Or Break It?
Online Identity Verification Guide
How Well Have You Verified Their Identity?
Ghost / Scam Pattern Detector
Are They Ghosting You — Or Running a Scam?
Dating Safety Statistics Hub
How Does Your Safety Compare to the Average?
Romance Scam Loss Calculator
How Much Have You Already Lost?
Date Safety Checklist Generator
Get Your Pre-Date Safety Checklist
Dating ROI Calculator
What's Your Dating Investment Actually Getting You?
Relationship Pace Checker
Is Your Relationship Developing at a Healthy Speed?
Dating Profile Red Flag Checker — Are You Sabotaging Your Matches?
Is Your Dating Profile Turning Women Away?
Why Am I Not Getting Matches? — Free Dating App Diagnostic
Why Aren't You Getting Matches?
First Date Planner — Plan a Date She'll Actually Enjoy
Plan a First Date That Actually Works
Dating Bio Generator — Write a Bio That Gets Matches
Generate a Dating Bio That Actually Works
Which Dating App Should I Use? — Free Quiz for Men
Which Dating App Is Right for You?
First Message Generator — Opening Lines That Get Replies
Write an Opening Message She'll Actually Respond To
First Date Conversation Guide — Never Run Out of Things to Say
Never Run Out of Things to Say on a First Date
Post-Date Text Generator — What to Text After a First Date
What Should You Text After the Date?
Dating Profile Photo Scorer — Are Your Photos Killing Your Matches?
Score Your Dating Photos — Are They Helping or Hurting?
Hinge Prompt Answer Generator — Answers That Get Likes
Write Hinge Prompt Answers That Actually Get Likes
Is Dating App Premium Worth It? — ROI Calculator for Men
Is Paying for a Dating App Actually Worth It?
Dating App Match Rate Calculator — How Do You Compare?
What's Your Real Match Rate — And Is It Normal?
Tinder ELO Score Estimator — Is the Algorithm Working Against You?
Is the Tinder Algorithm Killing Your Matches?
Dating Readiness Assessment — Are You Actually Ready to Date?
Are You Actually Ready to Start Dating?
Dating Confidence Score — Rate Your Confidence Across 4 Dimensions
How Confident Are You When It Comes to Dating?
Conversation Revival Generator — Fix a Dying Dating App Chat
Conversation Dying? Revive It Before She Ghosts.
Bumble Prompt Generator — Answers That Make Her Message First
Write Bumble Prompts That Make Her Message First
Ask Her Out Generator — Transition From Chat to Date
Ready to Ask Her Out? Get the Right Message.
Trust Score Simulator — See Your GuyID Trust Tier in Action
What Trust Tier Would You Be?
Dating Photo Lineup Optimizer — Get Your Photos in the Right Order
Are Your Photos in the Right Order?
First Date Outfit Selector — What to Wear on a Date
What Should You Wear on Your First Date?
Dating App Comparison — Tinder vs Bumble vs Hinge for Men
Tinder vs Bumble vs Hinge — Which Wins for You?
Swipe Strategy Calculator — Find Your Optimal Swipe Rate
Are You Swiping Too Much — Or Not Enough?
Couples Trust Compatibility Score
How Compatible Is Your Trust?
How Well Do You Know Each Other?
How Well Do You Really Know Each Other?
Relationship Green Flags — Couples Edition
Rate Your Green Flags Together
Couples Safety Quiz
How Safe Do You Keep Each Other?
Couples Trust Score
What Is Your Combined Trust Score?
What Official Reporting Shows
Reported losses are substantial, but every figure needs its year, definition, and scope.
median reported romance-scam loss in 2023 (FTC)
confidence/romance complaints in 2024 (FBI IC3)
reported confidence/romance losses in 2024 (FBI IC3)
of U.S. adults have used a dating site or app (Pew)
Sources: FTC 2023 reporting, FBI IC3 2024 Annual Report, and Pew Research Center 2023. Review the primary links
Tool Detected a Risk?
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83 Free Dating Safety Tools — Catfish Detection, Red Flag Analysis & More
Online dating has opened up incredible ways to meet people — but it has also increased the risk of catfishing, romance scams, and emotional manipulation. The FTC received 64,003 romance-scam reports tied to $1.14 billion in reported losses in 2023. Those are reported cases, not an estimate of every incident.
GuyID's 83 free dating safety tools cover everything from catfish detection and relationship red flag analysis to romance scam profiling, narcissistic behavior detection, gaslighting pattern analysis, love bombing warnings, and controlling behavior scoring. Every tool is free, anonymous, and takes under 60 seconds.
We also offer tools specifically for men who want to build trust on dating apps — including trust score estimators, profile trust audits, and verification readiness quizzes. Plus couples quizzes for trust compatibility and relationship knowledge testing.
If a tool raises a concern, you can request a GuyID Trust Card from your match. GuyID can confirm selected identity signals and collect vouches from people who say they know him, giving you more context before deciding what to do next.
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