89%
🔍 check social media before a first date
84%
🎭 have been catfished or lied to on apps
57%
🛡️ say ID verification should be standard

GuyID Dating Safety Survey, 2026

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How Does Your Safety Compare to the Average?

Answer 8 questions. See how you compare to national dating safety statistics in 60 seconds.

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Do you verify matches before meeting? (89% of people check social media)

1/8
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Do you have a safety plan for dates? (Only 34% of daters do)

2/8
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Have you been catfished? (84% have been catfished or lied to)

3/8
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Can you enforce boundaries on dates? (62% of women say they stay in uncomfortable situations)

4/8
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Could you spot a romance scam? ($1.3B lost annually in the US)

5/8
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Do you share your location on dates? (Only 29% use live location sharing)

6/8
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Should ID verification be standard for dating? (57% say yes)

7/8
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Would you share safety tools with friends? (68% would share immediately)

8/8
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Research by
Ravi Shankar
Ravi Shankar
Founder, GuyID · Dating Safety Researcher · 13+ Years in Data Analytics

Methodology: This risk assessment is based on behavioral patterns documented across dating safety research, FTC romance scam reports, and IC3 cybercrime data. Scoring weights reflect frequency and severity of reported incidents.

Last updated: March 2026

How Your Safety Habits Compare to National Averages

Dating safety is not just about knowledge — it is about practice. Many people know they should verify matches, share their location, and have safety plans, but far fewer actually do these things consistently. The Dating Safety Statistics Hub compares your specific habits against national benchmarks and research data, showing where you are ahead of the curve and where you are falling behind.

Understanding your position relative to others is motivating in a way that abstract safety advice is not. When you learn that only 29% of daters use live location sharing and you are not one of them, the gap becomes tangible and actionable.

Key Dating Safety Statistics

These data points from our 2026 survey and published research shape the comparison:

  • 89% check social media before a first date
  • 84% have been catfished or lied to on dating apps
  • 86% have avoided meeting someone because something felt off
  • 57% say ID verification should be standard for dating
  • 68% would share a dating safety tool with single friends immediately
  • 62% would definitely check a trust profile before meeting
  • Only 34% have a formal safety plan for dates
  • Only 29% use live location sharing while on dates

What the Statistics Mean for You

If 89% of your potential dates are checking your social media, being unfindable online is working against you. If 84% have been deceived, the trust barrier is real — and overcoming it through verification gives you an advantage.

For your own safety, the low adoption of formal safety plans (34%) and live location sharing (29%) means most daters are less protected than they could be. Being in the minority that takes these steps dramatically reduces your risk.

Frequently Asked Questions

Where do these statistics come from?+

Statistics cited on GuyID tools come from our own 2026 Dating Safety Survey (n=37 and growing), published FTC reports on romance fraud, academic research on online dating behavior, and industry reports from dating app companies. We cite sources on every tool page.

How does knowing statistics help my safety?+

Statistics make abstract risk concrete. Knowing that 84% of people have been catfished makes verification feel essential rather than optional. Knowing only 29% share their location makes you realize that this simple step puts you ahead of 71% of daters.